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Is Your Teen In An Abusive Relationship?
30th September 2010
As the number of teens in abusive relationships steadily increases, and different types of abuse like cyber bullying become more prevalent, Parent Channel unveils a brand new video clip which provides parents with the warning signs and advice on how to make sure your teen is safe.
An NSPCC research report, published in September 2009 showed that a quarter of girls and 18 per cent of boys reported some form of physical partner violence, and that nearly three-quarters of girls and half of boys reported some form of emotional partner violence. One in nine girls and 4 per cent of boys reported severe physical violence.
Parent Channel’s Teen Development Expert Jacqueline Harding has revealed the top 10 warning signs to look out for if your teen’s in an abusive relationship along with some advice for parents and teens.
- If your teen stops hanging out with their friends.
- Overly jealous teenagers sometimes try to control their boyfriends or girlfriends by not letting them see close friends and even family.
- Receiving frequent phone calls/texts.
- Getting into trouble at school.
- Wearing the same clothes day after day or changes in their clothing, such as wearing long sleeves when they normally wear short sleeves.
- Acting depressed, or more quiet than usual.
- Becoming angry if you ask how they are.
- Trying to hide scratches or bruises.
- Making excuses for a boyfriend or girlfriend.
- Becoming secretive or moody.
Advice for parents if your teen is in an abusive relationship
- Talk to your teen! Ensure they feel they can trust you and communicate with you.
- Find out what they think makes a healthy relationship, and see what they’re learning from their friends.
- Tell them they are not to blame if somebody is trying to make them do things they don’t want to do and help them to build their confidence.
- Don’t pressure them to end the relationship yet as this may lead to a power struggle but get to know your teen’s boyfriend or girlfriend.
Advice for teens if you’re in an abusive relationship
- Teenagers will often turn to a friend before family about problems. If you think you or a friend is in an abusive relationship, trust your gut feelings.
- If something feels uncomfortable or wrong with the relationship, then it is not likely to be healthy.
- Get help immediately. Don't keep your concerns to yourself.
- Break the silence. Talk to someone you trust, like a parent, teacher, or a school counselor or nurse. Tell them what the other person has done to you and how they treat you.
For free advice and practical help on all aspects of parenting, please visit Parent Channel at: www.parentchannel.tv
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